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Divorce Mediation in San Diego
The Preferred Alternative to Litigation
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any people who are considering divorce think litigation is the only course of action. They anticipate facing enormous financial and emotional challenges
—spending tens of thousands of dollars on divorce attorney fees, having to appear in court numerous times, and going through hours of antagonistic negotiations with “the other side” and a win-lose outcome. That doesn’t have to be the case. Our Divorce mediation services in San Diego offer a much more cost-effective, efficient, and less hostile alternative to litigation and produces a win-win result. We respect both parties’ perspectives equally.
At Divorce Options San Diego, we never litigate. We don’t do adversarial work and we never represent one spouse against another. In contrast, we use our expertise, education, and experience to generate creative, optimized solutions for divorce, child custody, and eventual separate new lives. Our method is comprehensive and involves the financial, legal, psychological, and practical aspects of effective, mutual agreements that sustain an honorable and respectful outcome long after the divorce is finalized. We are a one-stop shop for divorce mediation San Diego couples can rely on. We complete all parts of your divorce from beginning to end. Because our process is so comprehensive and thorough you won’t need to hire an additional attorney even though it’s your legal right to do so.
Our Extensive San Diego Divorce Mediation Services Mean You Never Set Foot in Court. We are a one-stop shop and take care of everything for you. We provide a full-service approach, which means you never set foot in court. We provide divorce mediation services that others simply don’t offer, such as including a client’s CPA in financial matters and helping a client move. We handle every aspect of the process, including:
Pre-divorce planning
Masterful divorce mediation and negotiation
Financial analysis
Complete community property analysis
Creative divorce options
Fair asset division
Drafting and filing all court documents and settlement agreement
International and cross-cultural divorce
Mediated divorce business appraisal
QDROs and stock valuation
Marital mediation and separation
Why Divorce Mediation Services Are Better Than Divorce Litigation
Divorce Options is the natural choice for clients searching for cost-efficient and cooperation-centered divorce mediation services in San Diego. We facilitate solutions to conflicts that may arise during divorce mediation, and we enable our clients to make positive and productive decisions during emotionally turbulent times. When looking for a highly experienced, dedicated divorce mediator, San Diego couples deserve one who is:
Confidential
Comprehensive
Efficient
Detail Oriented
Cost-Effective
Results-Oriented
Creative
Experienced
Highly Educated
Friendly and Professional
Unmatched Divorce Mediation San Diego Couples Can Count On
For more than 30 years, the experienced mediating team at Divorce Options San Diego has saved couples money, time, and stress by employing the most current research-based techniques for effective negotiation, collaboration, and cooperation at even the most emotionally charged times. With our extensive expertise in divorce finances and taxation, psychology, and the law, we guide our clients through every step of the process, resolving conflict in ways that leave each party feeling respected, heard, and understood.
Benefits of Our Divorce Mediation Style
We are cost-efficient and you know exactly how your money is used
Clients don’t have to go to court
Produces amicable agreements through mutual respect and cooperation
Greatly reduces the emotional toll litigation usually involves
Makes the process much less complicated
Achieves results much faster
Provides a better arrangement for the whole family if children are involved
Creative, sustainable, long-term solutions
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- BANKING&FINANCE
- CORPORATE
- DISPUTE RESOLUTION
- INTELLECTUAL PROPERTY
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Our Extensive Divorce Mediation Services in San Diego Prevent You from Setting Foot in Court
We are a one-stop shop and take care of everything for you. We provide a full-service approach, which means you never set foot in court, instead meeting with a divorce mediator. San Diego clients can receive divorce mediation services that other mediators simply don’t offer in divorce mediation, such as including a client’s CPA in financial matters and helping a client move. We handle every aspect of the process, including:
- Pre-divorce planning
- Masterful divorce mediation and negotiation
- Financial analysis
- Complete community property analysis
- Creative divorce options
- Fair asset division
- Drafting and filing all court documents and settlement agreement
- International and cross-cultural divorce
- Mediated divorce business appraisal
- QDROs and stock valuation
- Marital mediation and separation

Why Divorce Mediation Services in San Diego Are Better Than Divorce Litigation
Divorce Options San Diego is the natural choice for clients searching for cost-efficient, cooperation-centered alternatives to litigation. We facilitate solutions to conflicts that may arise during divorce mediation. San Diego clients, with our help, can make positive and productive decisions during emotionally turbulent times. As highly experienced, dedicated mediators, we are:
Confidential
Comprehensive
Efficient
Detail Oriented
Cost-Effective
Results Oriented
Creative
Experienced
Highly Educated
Friendly and Professional

Experienced Divorce Mediators San Diego Couples Can Count On
For more than 30 years, the experienced mediating team at Divorce Options San Diego has saved couples money, time, and stress by employing the most current research-based techniques for effective negotiation, collaboration, and cooperation at even the most emotionally charged times. With our extensive expertise in divorce finances and taxation, psychology and the law, we guide our clients through every step of the process, resolving conflict in ways that leave each party feeling respected, heard, and understood.

Benefits Of Our Divorce Mediation Style
- We are cost efficient and you know exactly how your money is used.
- Clients don’t have to go to court
- Produces amicable agreements through mutual respect and cooperation
- Greatly reduces the emotional toll litigation usually involves
- Makes the process much less complicated
- Achieves results much faster
- Provides a better arrangement for the whole family, if children are involved
- Creative, sustainable, long-term solutions
What People Say

My now ex-wife and I are super-busy professionals. This firm took charge, got all our information, and prepared a complex MSA that we both still appreciate. Very fair rates and impeccable work. ~T.S.

Divorce paperwork is very confusing. This firm does it all with efficiency, empathy, and an amazing skill set. They helped us negotiate a fair business valuation, and a very reasonable property split – and they got it all done in 4 weeks. I highly recommend this firm. ~R.P.

From start to finish Dr. Boileau and Ms. Goldhammer moved us through the divorce process. Great team! Great approach! ~G.W.

I’m so glad I found this firm. They handled our stock options, unvested RSUs, and real estate with accuracy and professionalism. We could not have done it without them. ~ C.B.

I highly recommend Nazarita and Kevin to anyone. They worked out our community property and parenting plan with kindness and skill – and always kept us on track. ~ S.S.

I hired these guys to give me private consultation and analysis of my situation. I was thoroughly impressed with their knowledge of psychology, the law, and the kind of analysis that in the end helped me solve my divorce. They are the very best negotiators.” “These people are worth every penny. In the end, they saved me a fortune.

Nazarita and Kevin were able to help me with all aspects of my case. I’d recommend these two and their staff to anyone who wants to make a complex situation manageable.

First-rate service! Impeccable professionalism and knowledge helped make a stressful situation tolerable. I’d recommend these guys to anyone.
Meet Our
Mediators
We are a one-stop shop and take care of everything for you. We provide a full-service approach, which means you never set foot in court.

Kevin Boileau, PhD, JD/LLM
SENIOR MEDIATOR

Nazarita Goldhammer
SENIOR MEDIATOR & NEGOTIATOR



